By Dave Smith, The Ultimate Retirement Coach
When you look back on your life, certain decisions stand out — the ones that built your foundation for health, happiness, and freedom. They weren’t always flashy or even easy at the time. But they shaped the quality of your retirement and your ability to enjoy it.
If you’re still building your next chapter, these are the seven choices your future self will be grateful for:
Every walk, every stretch, every healthy meal — they all add up. Your body is the vehicle for every experience you’ll ever have. People rarely regret caring for it; they regret when they didn’t.
Starting small beats starting late. Financial peace of mind in retirement is the result of small, consistent actions taken years earlier. Compound growth is one of life’s quiet superpowers.
Your peace is worth protecting. Walking away from people or environments that drain you isn’t weakness — it’s wisdom. Those choices create room for healthier relationships and growth.
Whether it was changing careers, starting a business, or moving somewhere new — people thank their younger selves for trying. Regret usually lives where courage didn’t.
The richest people in retirement aren’t measured in dollars but in deep connections. Investing time and care in friendships, family, and community pays the highest emotional dividends.
Emotional fitness is as vital as physical health. Learning to pause, breathe, and respond instead of react changes how you experience every moment — and every person — in your life.
Everything changes the moment you decide you’re worth the effort — worth the health, the happiness, the boundaries, and the dreams. Gratitude often begins the day you start living like you matter.
What’s one decision you could make today that your future self will thank you for in ten years?
Download this week’s “Letter to My Younger Self” Worksheet at www.LeapRetirement.com.
Use it to reflect on:
What your younger self did right.
What lessons you’d share with your past self.
One new commitment you’ll make for your future self this week.