You’re Not Auditioning Anymore
It’s Time to Flip the Script on Approval
By Dave Smith | The Ultimate Retirement Coach
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🧠One Idea: Flip the Script on Approval
In the working world, many of us spent decades walking into rooms wondering if we’d be accepted.
“Will they like me?”
“Am I saying the right thing?”
“Do I fit in?”
But retirement brings a powerful shift. You’re not here to audition anymore. You’re here to decide what fits you.
Instead of worrying about how you’re being judged, ask:
Do I like them?
Are they saying the right thing to me?
Am I willing to give my approval?
99% of people’s judgments reflect more about them than they do about you.
This stage of life is about alignment, not approval. It’s your time to choose who and what deserves a seat at your table.
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âť“ One Question to Ask Yourself:
What is one thing you’re worried people will think about you right now?
And here’s the key: Why does it still bother you?
Sit with that for a moment. It might uncover a deeper fear worth releasing.
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đź“ť One Exercise for This Week:
Try this:
Pick one worry you’ve been holding onto—something you’re afraid others might think.
Ask yourself:
“What would I do if I weren’t so worried about that?”
Now go do it. Even a small step matters.
Whether it’s saying no, speaking up, or starting something new—this is the moment to act from courage, not fear.
Remember:
Small changes lead to lasting breakthroughs.
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👋 I’d Love to Hear from You
What small shift did you make this week?
Drop a comment below or send me a message—I’d love to celebrate your win with you.
To your freedom,
Dave Smith
The Ultimate Retirement Coach