The Ultimate Retirement Skill That No One Talks About
By Dave Smith – The Ultimate Retirement Coach
One Powerful Idea:
Who you surround yourself with in retirement matters more than you think.
As we step into retirement, we naturally start focusing on the numbers: savings, investments, health coverage. But what often gets overlooked is the emotional ecosystem we live in—our relationships.
Here’s the truth:
âś… Surrounding yourself with people who make you feel better is an underrated life skill.
❌ Surrounding yourself with people who make you look better is an overrated one.
Why? Because in retirement, there’s no room for pretense. You’ve earned the right to peace, joy, and authenticity.
If something great happens in your life and the people around you aren’t happy for you—that’s a red flag. You don’t need critics disguised as companions. You need cheerleaders who celebrate your wins and support your growth.
One Question for Reflection:
Have you surrounded yourself with people who make you better? If not, how soon do you want to start looking?
Whether it’s old friends, family members, or new social circles—take stock. Retirement is the perfect time to create your dream community. You’re not stuck. You’re choosing.
Let this be your journaling prompt for the week. Reflect deeply. Write freely.
One Exercise for the Week:
Show appreciation to the people you want more of in your life.
Gratitude attracts greatness. This week, take 5–10 minutes to reach out to someone who’s made your life lighter, happier, or more hopeful. Text them. Call them. Write them a note.
Download the worksheet below to make it easy:
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by Dave Smith, The Ultimate Retirement Coach
1. List 3 people who make you feel better just by being around them.
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2. Write down how they make you feel better (specific moments or qualities).
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3. One way you will show appreciation to each of them this week:
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4. Reflection prompt:
“How does it feel to invest in people who genuinely care about you?”
Final Thought:
Small changes lead to lasting breakthroughs.
Reply to this blog—or just send me a message—and let me know how it went. I read every one.
Let’s make this chapter your best one yet.
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Dave Smith
The Ultimate Retirement Coach
Your Next Chapter Starts Now™
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